Sunday, August 16, 2026

2026 August: Local NJ Boating

 13 August 2026

Before our last trip to the Bahamas, Clark made a spur-of-the-moment decision to buy a small dinghy that we could use there that we could "beach" to go ashore. Unfortunately, that did not work out as well as we hoped as we had no engine to propel the dinghy and no time to buy one before we had to depart to catch a weather window. 

That dinghy has sat in our basement waiting for its turn to be useful ever since. This past week Clark decided we should drag it out of the basement and set it up for potential use. We have a 4-HP outboard that he could use to propel it, but before he could do that, he needed to register the boat in NJ to be legal out on the water. 

Before we could go to the MVC (Motor Vehicle Commission) to register it, Clark needed to find the documents showing proof of ownership, bill of sale, etc. For over a week we looked high and low - on the boat and all over the house. Usually I am the one to find things but not this time. Luckily, Clark did stumble over it finding it near related boating equipment. Once he found the documents, he ran off to the MVC to get the registration done. 

I realized after he left, and too late to warn him, that he would need a reservation to get any work done. Some 30 to 45 minutes later he returned saying he had been unsuccessful as 1) he did need a reservation and 2) our Eatontown location no longer performs this function. He would need a reservation in a town about 30-minutes drive north of us. Some years ago (not so many years) a New Jersey governor did a facelift on the, then called, DMV (Dept. of Motor Vehicles) to make it more efficient and renamed it the MVC to take away the stigma and stink of the inefficient old system. Oh well - nice try!

Clark scheduled his appointment, which unfortunately was several days into the future, made the appointment, and got the boat registered. Now that he had the boat registered, he needed to put the registration numbers on the boat. (No wonder it has sat in our basement for a couple of years!) Recently, the last West Marine near us closed permanently. Clark did not think the one in Brick would sell the letters / numbers to apply anyway, so he ordered them online. 

When they finally arrived, he stuck them on boards (made for this application) that he could hang on each side of the dinghy proudly displaying the registration data. Before applying the new letters / numbers, he removed the old ones from the board and cleaned the board with acetone. (Taking the dinghy for a run had turned into a full-blown project!)

Now, finally, to take the dinghy for a test ride!  Having no idea when the outboard was last used or how well it would run, I decided to let Clark go out on his own first. I would join him after he approved its condition. If he had to row back, we did not need my weight in the boat, and I did not want to assist in rowing it!

Surprisingly, the engine had gasoline in it, and it had not turned into a gluey substance. Clark ran the boat out to the end of our creek and even made it back again! Now it was time for both of us to go for a spin!

Clark at "helm" and 
Ev up front to enjoy a dinghy ride

When Clark went out on his own, he ran the engine up on speed and tried to get the dinghy up on plane. Even with just him in the boat, that was a no go. Given that, our excursion was a very slow ride out to Pleasure Bay and back to the house. 

The first thing I noticed as we exited our creek was that we were on an eye-to-eye level with a bird sitting on the no wake float and monitoring the waterway.

At eye level with a sea gull

Rather than just going to the end of our creek and back home again, Clark took us down a neighboring lagoon that we don't ever navigate on Sunset Delight due to narrow width concerns. The first thing we both noticed as we entered the lagoon was the smell. Just one creek over from us and ours isn't odiferous. As I scrunched up my nose at the smell, Clark said, "Manure!" Lovely! 

Even so, we continued down the creek to the end (very short ride) to check out the view. 


Clark's favorite tree is the Weeping Willow and one house on the creek had two of them. One was a real beauty and the other did not look quite so healthy.



Gorgeous Weeping Willow
on a Rumson lagoon

As we exited that waterway, I asked Clark if he planned to check out any more shallow lagoons, and he said, "No". He noticed that the "tell tale" on the outboard (per Google also referred to as the "pee hole") was dripping and not streaming. He keeps an eye on it and knew it had been streaming when we left. He was concerned that blades on the impellor had broken up due to age. As soon as we pulled up to the dock, he went into investigation mode.


"Why isn't the outboard peeing?"

Before doing any more aggressive investigation, Clark decided to use a thin piece of metal (like a very thin coat hanger type metal) to see if the hole was plugged. That, in fact, was the issue and, thus, a very quick fix! Yay!

Dinghy with NJ registration plates

So, now we have a usable, registered dinghy. What we don't have is a complete solution for bringing it with us on Sunset Delight for quick and easy way to get to shore (unlike our current dinghy which is tedious to deploy). How do we carry it with us? What engine do we buy for it (not gasoline)? Clark is doing research on electric motors and trying to decipher their power ratings into HP equivalent - not my idea of fun!

16 August 2026

The weather yesterday and today was simply put - amazing! We had temps in the high 70s or low 80s with low humidity. It actually felt cool outside! Yesterday, the 15th, I decided to do some gardening work. Every time I turn around the weeds have reappeared. They come up in between the pavers we earlier this summer had cleaned up as well as in the rock landscaping we have near the creek and everywhere in between.

Given that hard work yesterday, it sounded good when Clark said we should take Sunset Delight out for a maintenance run. We generally try to move the boat every 7 to 10 days to help keep the bottom clean. Plus, Clark had done some engine work recently and needed to check for any further leaks, etc. 

We headed out at noon. We are generally gone for about 90 minutes if it is a simple maintenance run. With rain threatened for later in the day and high tide mid-day, we pulled in our lines and went out for our ride just as the clock showed 12:00 noon. 

Neighbor's Flags flapping in the breeze

As we crossed Pleasure Bay heading towards Sea Bright, we could feel a pretty strong breeze blowing. Looking over the beach at Sea Bright, I noticed an airplane pulling a banner quite low to the shoreline. I don't normally see them that low to the ground and wondered how he managed the wind with a banner trailing behind him. I also wondered what size audience he might have today as it felt cool for a day at the beach. 


Plane and banner just over the rooftops

As we went past a marina in Sea Bright, I noticed a crane on a barge at dock. The tow boat name was funny.

"Tug O' War"
at dock in Sea Bright

When we arrived home in the spring, we noticed that almost all of the day markers were gone from Pleasure Bay due to the weather over the winter. They were nicely put back in place a few weeks after that. It did not take long for boat to knock one over. The green marker (shown below) that marks the start of the channel we take to cross the bay to our creek now stands at a 45 degree angle to the water and is almost totally submerged at high tide. 

Double Green at 45 degree angle on the bay

Clark also noted while we were on our ride that the Red #28 that marks the exit from the Shrewsbury River into Pleasure Bay was gone - not out of station but gone! Since shoaling occurs at that point, it is a pretty important marker to have disappear.

We arrived back at our creek in less than one hour from when we left. When I mentioned it to Clark, he said that was because we pushed the boat up to wide open on the return trip to check out the max RPMS. Clark runs it up on speed occasionally to check out the boat's performance. It passed!

Re-entering our creek
Note the day markers are still in place!

After docking, we had some work to be done. Taking the boat up to max RPM in the wind meant we had salt spray on our port-side windows. Although rain was predicted for the evening, it seemed unlikely that the windows would wash themselves. The stripes of salt water residue had to be taken off if we wanted a pretty view.

Clark washed the windows, and then because he had a bucket of water, he decided to rinse other places that are used for handholds. Unfortunately, some of those were over the freshly cleaned windows meaning the windows had to be done a second time. While he fussed over that, I took a wet rag and wiped the salt off all the railing around the boat - also to get the salt off. 

Window cleaning time

Knowing Clark had done the engine maintenance earlier in the month, I asked if he had checked for spills and leaks. He had not, so he went to do that and found a puddle of oil by the starboard engine. I thought it was the port engine he worked on!!

Substance the color of mud on 
the engine and the floor

Clark immediately went into investigation mode. "Where did that come from?"


Clark looking for the source of
the problem - starboard side

I noticed that the dipstick for the oil did not appear to be fully seated. We think that may have been the issue. When we got ready to leave earlier, Clark went to start the engines and remembered he had not done the pre-trip engine checks (he never forgets!). Apparently, he did the checks in a hurry and may have left the dipstick not fully seated. Hopefully that was the, now rectified, problem.

Looking to the port side, he found some reddish color fluid. He cleaned it up and found a not-tight-enough hose clamp that he tightened. 


Red-colored fluid - port side

Finally, with windows and railings clean and fluids on both engines checked, we closed up the boat for today.

Earlier in the month ...

Besides getting the spare dinghy set up, Clark has been busy working on another side project for the boat. We have window shades in the boat salon that are showing their age having been in place since the boat was built many years ago now. Figuring out what to replace them with has been another problem to be solved. Where to go, what to buy, how much to spend, what color, what fabric, what style, ... 
 
After visiting the Blinds To Go store in Eatontown and the Hunter Douglas store in Red Bank, Clark checked out blinds.com, per a recommendation from a representative from the company that manufactures / sells the type of boat we own. The difference in price was truly amazing - a difference of hundreds versus thousands of dollars depending on where the shades are purchased.  

We got samples in the mail from blinds.com, measured, measured and re-measured the window and existing shades and finally have an order ready to go. Hopefully we will find we did a good job when they arrive, but really Clark will have earned all the accolades when the job is completed! Mostly I held one end of the tape measure for him!

When not working on the boat in some way shape or form or pulling weeds, I have kept busy with my Kindle and nautical, historical novels or with a jigsaw puzzle my granddaughters gave me when they were in New Jersey.  Containing 1000 pieces, it kept me busy for a few days. Towards the end, I was convinced there were pieces missing but, thankfully, that proved to be untrue!




Friday, August 7, 2026

2026 July: Croton-on-Hudson and Connecticut

 

Lillian, Clark, and Jack
at Croton-on-Hudson Park

25 July 2026 - Sunday

Our son, Chris, reached out to us to see if we could come for a visit to his home in Connecticut to spend some time with the grandkids. Both children had a week with sports and other activities and only one parent available to manage everything. Chris's wife, Heather, had a business trip planned to France of all things! 

We left mid-morning and battled traffic as we drove up to arrive Sunday afternoon. A flurry of activity greeted us as Chris and Heather finished some work in their garden before Heather got ready to drive off to JFK airport in New York for her flight to Paris. 

Having checked the weather forecast for the week, Clark found that today would be the best choice for an outing to hike at Croton-on-Hudson in upstate New York - something he thought would be a great family activity. 

Chris volunteered to drive, and the five of us piled back into our car for more hours on the road. Once again traffic was heavy as we slogged our way to the park. When we finally arrived, close to 4:30 in the afternoon, we were all happy to extract ourselves from the car and check out the park! 

As we drove in to find the parking lot, we got our first views of the grounds. None of us expected the scene that met our eyes!


Clark and I have traveled up and down the Hudson River in our various boats more times than I can count, each time passing by Croton-on-Hudson ,and never once imagining what a gem was hidden there.

Croton-on-Hudson is part of the Westchester County Parks system. Our first obstacle was deciphering the maps to figure our where we would hike and how long it would take to do so. The maps were not so very helpful.





Fortunately, Google Maps led us to the appropriate entrance for the parking lot, and from there it was pretty straight forward as to where to go and what to see.

Wikipedia gives the history of the Croton-on-Hudson as being established in the late 1800s in support of New York City and the NY Central Railroad. Irish, Italian, and German immigrants moved to the area to do construction work for the aqueduct. Construction of the "New Croton Dam" began in  1892 and completed in 1906. I was in awe looking at the size of the structure while thinking of the manpower  required and the lack of modern technology used in engineering and construction. 

We found a place to enter the trail and began our relatively short hike to the top of the dam.

Chris, Lillian, Clark, and Jack




The woods along the trail contained some interesting structures and ditches / ravines.



"Break time already??"

Lillian found a "seat" along the way


Jack just relaxed in place.

"Lillian!! Watch where you're walking!!!"

Don't fall in!

The trail led us to the dam. Clark took pictures of the rest of us from the end of the trail.



Ev, Lil, Jack, and Chris


Clark taking a picture







From the walkway on the dam, we could look down at the sites below ...

Lillian



Jack, Lil, and Chris

and watch the many folks taking advantage of the park on a great-weather day. 




Views from the dam were impressive to say the least! We could see the bridge we had driven over to
reach the parking lot







and see the water rushing by below us. 




It seemed like I was always trailing behind my family.

"Hey! Wait up!"

The sheer height and width of the structure was impressive.


I asked Lillian to take a picture of Clark and myself. She did a great job!



Jack and Lillian



Finally we reached the spillway!




We found enterprising people at the park - both at the top of the dam and down below on the park grounds. Up top, two women had a cart and were vending sliced mango and watermelon. Down below we found an ice cream truck and a hot dog vendor. The entrance fee being $10 per car, folks came to make a day of it. 

Having seen everything to be seen up top, we retraced our steps down the trail to the grounds below for a closer look at the base of the dam. 


Standing by the wall, people look miniaturized. 


Jack wanted a coin to throw into the fountain. I did not have one, perhaps fortunately, as I saw no other coins in this fountain.




Lillian, Jack, Chris, and Clark

Jack heading for the wall
with a stick he found along the way

Clark, Lillian, and Jack decided to go over and climb part way up the wall of the dam for a photo op.





It did not look like something I was willing to try climbing - even just a short distance! I was not interested in a twisted ankle today.



Then we walked over to get a closer look at the water coming off the dam.



I enjoyed studying the details of the architecture of the structure. Amazing!

















We then walked across the grounds to the bridge we drove over to enter the park for yet another perspective.



Bridge for cars coming into the park.







Clark taking pictures from the car bridge

Before leaving the park, Chris bought the kids treats from the ice cream truck on site. All three adults abstained. I knew if I had ice cream, I would not eat dinner.  On the way home, Chris suggested we stop for Chinese food in Danbury and ate at the "New China Wall" restaurant. We had enough food to have left overs for several days afterwards. 

27 - 31 July 2026

We stayed at Chris's house until Friday to help him out with juggling work and children activities. Jack had some summer school to attend leaving Lillian home alone with her mom in France. Clark and I spent time with Lillian when Chris and Jack were away at Jack's school.

Clark and Lillian spent a good bit of time in the pool together. 







I remember it was not too many years ago that Lillian refused to jump in the water afraid to get water in her eyes. Times have changed significantly!



Jack had a remote control boat that he decided to add to the pool-time fun. 



He also jumped into the pool!


Lillian and Jack both play soccer and had games / practices to attend. 

Complex dribbling exercises
Jack - blue shirt
Lillian - #14


Lillian practicing footwork


Jack poised to get the ball

One night Lillian had a basketball game. Jack and I stayed home together while the others went. Alas, Clark did not take any pictures!

Jack, Lillian, and I played a number of card games together including card games like Uno, Crazy 8s, Garbage, and a "Magic the Gathering" card game called "Instinct" closely resembling the rules for contract bridge. 


Jack challenged me to a couple of games of chess where I knew how to move the pieces but had no idea of a strategy to win the game. At 8-years old, Jack was better at the game than I was. 

Jack built a picnic set from a Lego-like kit.



Lillian wanted to go shopping, so the three of us (Clark, Lillian, and me) went to the West Farms Mall to help her spend her money - hopefully wisely. She went looking for squishable dumplings and cinnamon sugar pretzels. She found both and a few other things besides!

Of course, Lillian and I did some crafts together while I was there.

Blue (for Lillian) and Orange (for Jack) Squishable Dumplings
beside a bird house Lillian painted.

Lillian wanted to make flowers from pipe cleaners, but she needed me to work the hot glue gun to stick them together. 

Pipe-cleaner flowers

One morning, Lillian made waffles for the three of us (Clark, Lil, and me) for breakfast - Yummy!

Clark helped

Another day, Lillian announced that she wanted to bake. She pulled a child's cookbook off the shelf, and we looked through the pages to find something yummy. We opted to make Chewy Brownies, and my oh my they were delish! They had cocoa powder, chocolate chips, sugar and brown sugar plus more - simply sinful!

Since we have foldable bikes for the boat, we stuffed them in the trunk of our car to use while in Connecticut. One day, Clark, Lillian, Jack, and I went for a bike ride down the Farmington Canal Heritage Trail near their home. 





Lillian, Jack, and Ev

Unfortunately, the weather did not cooperate with us having a long bike ride. A storm popped up! Fortunately, at the time, we were located at Sweet Claude's Ice Cream shop located right on the heritage trail at the "Factory". We enjoyed our ice cream treats until the rain stopped sufficiently for us to pedal back home.


Mural at the "Factory"




Later in the week, Chris took ownership of a new car and took us out for ice cream at the "Micro Creamery of Connecticut", located in the Cheshire area, to celebrate the occasion.  Earlier, in the afternoon, he was acting "shady" and saying he had errands to run. The errand he had was to pick up the new car and surprise everyone with it! What a surprise that was! His old car was 16 years old and ready to be replaced.

On Friday it was time for us to head back to New Jersey. Lillian had an outing planned for the weekend at Great Wolf Lodge.  A friend of hers was having her birthday party there to enjoy the indoor waterpark with friends. I helped Lillian pack for the trip the day before, and as Clark and I left to head back home to NJ, she was anxiously awaiting the arrival of her friend to get going to the party. 

We waited until Chris got home with Jack before leaving. The drive from Chris's house to ours normally takes us about 3.5 hours. Usually, though, we drive home at 9:00 at night. We left on Friday around 1:15 and got home 5 hours later. Every road was backed up with traffic. Sadly, our timing meant we hit Jersey shore traffic on the Parkway. 

When we finally got home, we quickly unloaded a few items from the car and then ran across the street to our neighbor's house for dinner. (I mentioned our evening with Marina in my last blog update.) It was so nice to be able to have a relaxed and enjoyable dinner and evening of music after that hellacious drive home.